Posted by Millicent Daphne on Wednesday, September 15, 2010 Under: Personal Blogs
Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find we love, we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but the one who loves you.
The best lovers are the ones capable of loving from a distance far enough to allow the person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being. To let go of someone doesnt mean you have to stop loving. It only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness. Letting go in not just setting him free, but it also setting yourself free from the bitterness and hatred that dwell in you heart. Do not let the bitterness scare you away and dishearten you, but let yourself grow with wisdom in bearing it. You will find peace in just loving someone from a distance, not expecting anything in return.
But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow. There will come a time when we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling will soon consume our thoughts and actions. The sad part of it is when we realize that the other party feels nothing for us but plain FRIENDSHIP. We start or desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still trashed. You dont have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that love to someone deserving. Dont let your heart run in your life alone. Listen only to reasons but never fail to recognize how you really feel. Always remember, that if you love someone today, it means that someone better, is coming tomorrow. If you feel lost in love that doesnt mean that you failed in love. Cry if you have to, because the tears will wash away the bitterness and hurt that past had left to you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray for that love to stay and last a lifetime.
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